Short people online dating
Yes, focusing on what's inside is more important — but that's easier said than done.
It's hard to ignore something as obvious as height, especially if it makes a person stand out.
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I think the bigger issue is how comfortable random men are talking to me about my body.
My height isn't a purely aesthetic feature you can comment on candidly, like a coat or a hat.
But, as I was swiping left and right looking for a date I remembered how personal ads used to work.One of the best tips that I ever heard about online dating was from the founder of OK Cupid, who said to “accentuate the weird thing about you,” whether it’s your big nose or your strange ears, whether it’s your peculiar obsession with mac & cheese or desire to hang upside down from the ceiling every evening before bed.Whatever it is, someone out there will love it and that’s the person you want to be with, not the person who was tricked into going out with you on the pretense that you were tall, dark, and handsomely rich. We want the real—you only have a moment to shine so why not make the most of it by showing who you really are? [image: via Pixabay] Ready for conscious, like-minded individuals you really want to meet?We’re disappointed in real life when the person doesn’t measure up to expectations because we feel deceived, if we had known they were short or fat or republican when we didn’t want a short fat republican we could have saved both parties the time.It’s not that women don’t like short guys (or fat guys, or bald guys etc), it’s that we don’t like being lied to—and the false representation on dating profiles is exactly that.